Why Would One Want To Leave

If you're in love with each other, why would one want to leave the other?

Based on its definition, in love means a deep, tender, ineffable of feeling solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities. At first, it involve a rush and excitement, a butterfly-in-my-stomach feeling happen. The chemical on your brain kick in and you feel an emotional high, exhilaration, passion, and elation when you and your lover are together. After that, what next?

People choose to be with the person they love, some of them put labels on it, called a relationship, married, or friends-with-benefit or just a friendship or whatever. Some people in love so quickly, some people needs more time to absorb the definition of being in love. After amount of time, they're together and the reason is because they're in love with each other. Declare that they're in love is part of the joyous of being in love.

Somehow, we believe that if you love someone, then you love him/her...period. When two people are in love they know a "perfect" little world and "forever" is the only word exist in the dictionary. A period time that seem have no-end, through eternity, through endless ages. Stay together with the one you love refers to a choice that you make, a decision to be with him/her and all that crap about a commitment. 

Love is a state of mind. It is a commitment you make to try to love that person, regardless of whether they are experiencing their high times or their low. Its as strong as steel, as reliable as the setting sun, and as deeply responsive as you choose to make it. It is special, a gift and a blessing. - Cathleen Wilder

Unfortunately, this is not a perfect world. White Knight and Shinning Armor stays in museums and we actually pay to see that figure. With all that said, relationships ends. Divorce and break-ups happens. 

It is also their decision to be apart from each other. Insanely, I saw many people consciously decide to break-up with their lover. I don't know if it necessary to mention the reason why. Some people says love fades, or called it 'don't love the person anymore', which I don't get it. The only concept I, personally, know about it is that something might happened to it along the way. And then, why would you define 'forever' in your 'perfect' little world when one day you'd decide not to live in it anymore? What it mean of being in love in a first place if they choose to leave the other in the end? Maybe it wasn't love in a first place... 






Regards,

Kezia Mamoto